I hate....

I hate my brothers girlfriend! Ok so hate is a very strong word, but I really really dislike her.

My brother sent his rsvp to our wedding and her name was on it!!! I really didn't think she'd have enough guts to actually sit in a room with both sides of my family and Josh's family who also dislike her too (long story).

So new dilemma - do I let her come to my rehersal dinner? Do I actually sit her with my entire family at a table next to the head table? (that is where my brother will be sitting). I realize I'll be busy at our wedding and probably won't even notice her, but it is the principal of the thing. I mean seriously, how disrespectful do you need to be?

I'm trying and I mean i'm really trying (because letting go is probably the hardest thing for me to do) to forget about her. My mom told me bitterness was a very unattractive trait, and I have a tendency to be very bitter..... I take after my grandmother, who I am missing very much right now but that's a whole other post.....at least she'd understand where i'm coming from